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​The Country Where Hello Means Hello and Goodbye

7/31/2025

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Aside from discussing Hungarian painters, I haven't spent much time on this blog commenting on Hungarian culture, which is somewhat odd considering that I have spent a decade living here as a somewhat foreigner.

Somewhat foreigner because although I have Hungarian roots (go back far enough, they become Germanic), speak the language, and married a Hungarian, I spent the bulk of my life—more than forty years—in Anglo countries. 

Hungarian culture is not a big topic on this blog for one simple reason. There's not much to talk about. Since the collapse of communism in 1989, Hungary has gradually and then suddenly morphed into “every other place in the West.”

Except for the turbulent transition decades of the 90s and early 2000s, Hungarian culture has become as bland as unflavored yoghurt. 

The people here are pretty much the same as the people everywhere else in the West. The prevailing public political milieu leans more toward petit bourgeois conservatism, but the overall motivations remain intensely material in scope and nature. 

If I were to write about Hungarian culture today, I would fill this blog with posts about Hungarians diving headfirst into deep consumer debt to purchase things they don’t need, dreaming about their next vacation to whatever hotspot the television celebrities are pushing, and getting tattoos. Lots and lots of tattoos. 

And that pretty much sums it up. 

About the only interesting thing in Hungary today is the incorporation of the word “hello” into the Magyar language. 

Like Anglos, Hungarians employ the word as an initial greeting. Unlike Anglos, Hungarians also use the word when they say farewell.

​So, you say hello when you meet someone on the street in Hungary, and when you are ready to leave, you also say hello. 

Thus, hello serves as a sort of bookend greeting here. Coming or going? Doesn’t matter. Hello does the trick either way. 

And that’s about the most interesting aspect of Hungarian culture at the moment.   
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Laeth
8/1/2025 09:25:16

good post. although you failed to mention a cultural force to be reckoned with in hungary: you.

but yes outside of individuals, and all of them outside the system so of limited influence, there really is nothing anywhere. same in portugal. and probably the same all over europe.

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Francis Berger
8/1/2025 13:14:06

@ Laeth - I register it as little more than reacting to or complying with external forces and influences. Some people call it globalization or whatever, but I sense it has more to do with en masse despiritualization.

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Laeth
8/1/2025 14:06:52

oh i think you're right. i mean, it's everything. it's spiritual, psychical and physical. degeneration, demotivation, lack of faith. we have to refuse to go down with the ship.

bruce g charlton
8/1/2025 13:20:40

This is why it is (spiritually dangerous) nonsense to spend as much time and effort as people do to decide where is the "best" (i.e. overall least evil) place in the West to flee to.

Essentially everywhere is qualitatively the same overall, all moving in the same direction; but with various differences around that average.

I think the proper question we ought to ask is not "here is it safest for "people" to flee; but where should I personally be living - given my unique nature and destiny.

This will not be a matter of where I can find the most comfortable life, but a matter of where I ought to be to get (and learn from) my personally most-needful experiences.

I think we can get to know this by honest spiritual discernment (and seeking the right kind of guidance), and perhaps also get some kind of divine help to act on it - if the answer we get is genuine.

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Francis Berger
8/2/2025 19:25:02

@ Bruce - Yes, fleeing to some place of perceived "safety" is rather pointless these days from a spiritual point of view. However, I think moving some place or other can help spiritually, provided the decision is spiritually motivated.

I spent most of my adult life moving around, mostly in search of work because there was not much to be had in Canada, where I grew up. Ironically, my journey took me to places that were considerably less "safe and comfortable", like the Bronx, New York and Ashington, England.

That aside, when I settled in Hungary, I was driven primarily by a mixture of material and spiritual motivations. On the one hand, I knew I could buy a house in Hungary debt-free. On the other hand, I knew I would be making one-tenth of the salary I made in the West. So I would be comfortable in one aspect but considerably less comfortable in other aspects. For example, I currently earn about 1000 euros a month from my university job (if you can believe that!). My monthly grocery bill eats up about 60% of that net salary. Not much financial comfort or security there. However, not having a mortgage helps.

Anyway, after having lived most of my life in or near big cities, I sought a place where I might be able to touch the earth, so to speak. I settled in a small village because I wanted my son to have the experience of growing up in a place where he knew everyone and everyone knew him. A place he could call home. I never really had this experience in my childhood. I wanted him to experience those kinds of relationships. Quality over quantity, I suppose.

When I moved here, I remember thinking it was definitely safer and better than the other places I had lived. Three months later the migrant crisis erupted, and my village, which is near the Austrian border, lies on one the well-used "migrant routes." So much for safety. Then the birdemic hit, and we were no better off than anyone anywhere else. In some respects, we had it considerably worse!


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